need help or mentoring

I have been playing this game for 7months now last 3 months its the only game i play. I am a old league of legends player (dont **** on me). I switched because smite is more satisfying when you win. In league i was ranked in Gold.I understand all the basics and tactics in smite (it's simular to lol). I just cant manage to carry games like i do in lol.

some questions i am wondering about.

1. What are some good gods to carry conquest games with.

2. best spots to keep warded all game

3. How do i improve in this game....

4. When i am playing good lets say in the jungle. i clear i ganklk and take objectives, why does my team still refuses to help?

hope you guys can give me some overall tips on how to improve. OT even add me in the game and help me improve my playsyle.

if sameone wants to help me inprove ingame i would be realy happy.

ps. Sorry for my englis

1. look at the tierlist from raze (or sub) in the genral discussions. but for carrying assassin mages or adc are pretty good at it.

2. dependign on where you play but a the mana buffs (because jungle entrances to solo and duo lane) and in mid lande at the furies (at a way it covers the camp a bit and the entrance to your lane) also GF and FG ofcourse

3. like LoL practise (especcially in skill shots)

4. because smite can be even more toxic then LoL (last time I played what is a while back you had toxic guys 1/3 matches and friendly people in 1/? matches). and because some players still don't know how to play the game at lvl 30